Make up our life the relationships that we have with us and with others. Our happiness is determined by how we carry those relationships. If we want changes in attitudes forehead different issues or situations, the first change has to come from us. The change occurs from the inside out, can not claim to change others so that all will change. If the work we are uncomfortable by a rarefied atmosphere, first thing we should do is allow situations that are pleasant for most and slowly companions gradually coming together to change. We are impressionable beings by our environment and what happens around influences us very sharply. If we begin to see the situation as an opportunity, we will begin to realize the possibilities we have to improve our environment.
This mass recipe serves us in our family or relationship, most of the time you want to switch to the other, the majority of cases fail, because humans are individuals that we react against what we we want to impose, Although it is good for us. Here the strategy is the same, we must improve us first for our partner or family situation improves. If we want our son improve his notes and involve in their studies, what worse can do is compare it with the brother or neighbor, those will do to strengthen your posture not improve. If instead we reinforced the small achievements, rewarding effort rather than result gradually we will notice the changes. So simple, and at the same time difficult, we allow ourselves to be influenced by our feelings and we make erroneous decisions, that an open mind can only reflect and realize the situation to put media and change the outcome. The secret is to treat the other as you like you treated you, as a being special, unique, and another equal or more there there is no never.